Fruitful

The monthly newsletter for aspiring downshifters,
sustainable living enthusiasts and sustainable small businesses.

October 2009
In this issue...

  1. A Downshifter's Guide to Spiritual Practice.
  2. Your exploration this month.
  3. From the Blog...
  4. Quotes of the month
  5. Want to comment or contribute?
  6. Personal coaching

News and Events

The Handbook of Sustainability Literacy. Skills for a Changing World. Described as “...a deep reflection on the skills people need to survive and thrive in the challenging conditions of the 21st century,” here is a collection of articles by literary critics, permaculturalists, ecologists, artists, journalists, engineers, mathematicians and philosophers. Free to view online, together with video interviews with the contributors. Altogether a very useful resource for us all.


1. A Downshifter's Guide to Spiritual Practice.

Is downshifting a spiritual act? Is deciding to live more in alignment with the needs of the planet, humanity and ourselves an act of defiance, a refusal to comply, to be “socially included” or is it maybe a shift towards a mode of living that supports both our personal spiritual growth and the raising of global consciousness?

I have met plenty of atheistic, sustainable living and sustainable business enthusiasts who tell me that they see many reasons to simplify our social and business culture, to consume less, to emphasise personal and planetary wellbeing more, without needing to subscribe to any kind of spiritual beliefs or moral code. So, clearly, some sense of or belief in our spiritual nature is not a prerequisite for living more simply. For those who view living and working sustainably very much as part of their spiritual path, though, some kind of regular spiritual practice is paramount.

Why is that?

It’s like preparing to run a marathon. For most of us running a marathon is not something that we can just get up in the morning and do! We first need to train, to prepare and attune ourselves so that the task in hand becomes possible. For us to learn to change our approach to living and working to one where the needs of the planet, humanity and ourselves is uppermost in our consciousness, we need to practice being in touch and then remain in touch with that part of ourselves that guides us from the heart rather than from the head. I’m not saying that we never need guidance from the head, rather that our heads do a very good job of influencing us anyway, and flooding our consciousness for much of the time. By learning how to maintain contact with our hearts, our Higher Selves, the Divine, God, whatever that is for us, we will be redressing the balance between head and heart.

In my experience, regular, preferably daily, spiritual practice is a way to achieve this. What is it that gets in the way of us committing our time and energy to regular spiritual practice? What can we do to work with these obstacles and remove them?

Common Obstacles

Practical

• Lack of a physical space.
• Lack of a time space.

A very effective way around these kinds of obstacles is to consider our options more openly. If we can’t find room at home to meditate, pray, or practice Yoga, T’ai Chi or QiGung, for example, perhaps we can explore what changes can be made in our home environment to accommodate some space. Perhaps it is easier to go out to a regular class or support group some days and practice at home on others. Perhaps there’s another space away from home that we can use. Perhaps there are some changes we can make in how our home space is used in order to accommodate some room for our spiritual practice.


Personal health/physical

• Illness of some kind, either an acute episode or an ongoing physical or mental illness.
• Surgery
• Personal weaknesses – physical or psychological.
• Lack of knowledge

In an ideal world, we would establish a robust spiritual practice when we’re feeling well in order to carry us through any illness that might emerge later. In practice, this doesn’t always happen and we will need to be honest with ourselves about what we can handle when ill and balance that against the healing benefits of maintaining some form of practice. We will need to let anyone who is caring for us know that this is a priority for us and part of our care regime. Whatever our state of health, we may well benefit from working with a spiritual teacher.

Emotional

• Limiting beliefs (those that lead us to sabotage rather than support our efforts)
• Conditioning (unconscious patterns of behaviour, usually learnt in childhood, which may hinder our progress in adult life.)

Awareness is the key here – to watch our automatic reactions and unpack them to reveal our underlying needs and how we might meet them in a life-sustaining way. Coaching can help to raise awareness.

Social

• Family, friends, colleagues unsupportive.

We can choose to ignore unsupportive comments, or we can choose to talk gently with those who appear to be putting obstacles in our way. In my experience, most of us would rather keep quiet and seethe than have what we fear might be a “difficult conversation”. In practice, it’s usually easier in the longer term to have the discussion.

Spiritual

• Unsure of my path, lack of clarity.
• Conflict between what attracts me now and the religion I was raised in.

Ironically, it’s maintaining a spiritual practice that helps us to achieve awareness of, clarity with, and insight into, all of the above. We can ask ourselves how flexible or rigid we want to be and where our boundaries lie. We can also investigate areas where we feel we would like to extend our knowledge. Spiritual growth can be a dynamic balance between the experiential and the expansion of knowledge.

Conclusion.

Whilst not a prerequisite for living and working sustainably, maintaining a sound spiritual practice is something that many downshifters find supportive, inspiring and a great comfort. Whilst there can appear to be many obstacles to this approach in our modern, fast-paced way of life, it is possible to remove these. As with many areas of downshifting, effecting life changes that are important to us can lead us to question our assumptions and beliefs and thus to benefit from the process of growth that accompanies the change.


2. Your exploration this month.

What is your relationship with the world that goes beyond the material?

How is your spiritual life now and how would you like it to be in the future?


3. From the Blog...


Kreativ Blogger Award
I’m delighted to say that Morgan at Red Raven Circling was kind enough to pass on a Kreativ Blogger award to me.
Morgan’s blog is all about her musings on nature, poetry, writing, and the search for a sustainable life.
More...

Charter For Compassion
In this inspiring and challenging talk, Karen Armstrong, a writer and commentator on religion, explains her wish for a Charter for Compassion.
More...


4. Quotes of the month.

"Meditation brings wisdom; lack of meditation leaves ignorance. Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom."
Buddha

“For all my good intentions, there are days when things go wrong or I fall into old habits. When things are not going well, when I'm grumpy or mad, I'll realize that I've not been paying attention to my soul and I've not been following my best routine.”
Robert Fulghum

" Only in quiet waters do things mirror themselves undistorted. Only in a quiet mind is there adequate perception of the world."
Hans Margolius


5. Want to comment or contribute?

If you would like to comment on any aspect of this newsletter or to submit an article for inclusion in the newsletter and blog, please contact me by email.


6. Personal Coaching.

One-to-one coaching can help you:

  • let go of your old,stressful way of life, find a new path of vitality and an improved way of living.
  • deal with fears surrounding financial responsibilities, your relationships with others and other consequences of making a major life change.
  • improve your health, wellbeing and spiritual life.
  • further your personal growth.
  • achieve balance, clarity and peace.

    You can view further details on personal coaching
    here

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Have a fruitful month!

Sally

Sally Lever
coach, writer, educator
downshifting, sustainable living, sustainable business


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